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28 Apr

Ponderings and “Violent Acres”

I’ve read a few of her articles/entries a while back (year+ ?), find them very interesting, some good points/conclusions and apparently it’s been quite linked/popular again. I stumbled upon it again when someone at the IRC chan linked an article (not linked below). I’ve been gobbling a lot of her articles the past few nights and wish to share and comment a bit on a “few”. Also it has been another trying few days. Got to love (distant) financial and familial “malfactors”…

  • I’d Be Bisexual if Women Weren’t So Goddamn Annoying
    …Unfortunately, they’d all vaguely resemble Barbie with only slightly different hairstyles. Everyone has this mass marketed, watered down, bland form of beauty about them….
    Some might have a good personality? Maybe?
    …Call me crazy, but I like women who look a little different. I like a chick with flaws….
    *Nods* Like e.g. how unfortunate, unrecognisable, less unique Jennifer Grey (after Dirty Dancing) became after a nose job~
  • Dating is Competitive Manipulation
    …The truth is women love to compete with other women. Women want to win men over. They want to be chosen by a man who could have any girl he wants…
    *Nod nod* Something one already has (or by default) is boring… Something that is someone else’s… The grass is greener… (<- maybe not the best saying I could partly recall…) and etc. sayings?
    …I bought myself 2 dozen red roses. I wrote on the card ‘I can’t stop thinking about you.’ Then I placed them in the corner of my room, on top of my entertainment center. My goal was to make sure that they were visible without making it seem like I was purposely trying to draw attention to them…. …snip… What he meant to say was that he’d like to beat the crap out of the mysterious guy who bought me flowers. Figuratively speaking, of course.
    Evil (>o.O) But one’s (other/bad/negative/easily manipulated) emotions needs to be fuelled, I guess.
    …I can usually tell if a relationship is doomed the second I hear a woman putting herself down in front of her boyfriend. Ladies! Constantly referring to yourself as ‘fat’ or ‘stupid’ or ‘worthless’ won’t inspire tenderness from most males. The only thing you’re doing is convincing him that he made a mistake in choosing you. It is no coincidence the second your self confidence evaporated was the same second he developed a wandering eye. You told him you sucked and now he believes you. He’s wondering if he could do better….
    I think I have experienced that… next to spotting it with others.
  • Image is Everything
    …I am ashamed to say that it wasn’t until that exact instant that I became aware of a dynamic that plagued our friendship since the very first day we met. Renee was smart, but I was thin. Renee was hysterical, but I was thin. Renee was talented, but I was thin. Renee was everything I wanted to be, but all those fantastic qualities she possessed were trumped by my size 4 jeans….
    Image is everything. Sight, looks….is the first thing processed in the mind and how one deems/judges someone, no matter how open-minded… One that is fat is easily seen/considered to be less. Might be just social, advertising, appeal or whatever brainwashing, hmph. I guess, it’s hard to get out of the stereotyping if the battle or hill is so steep and with so many condescending eyes on you.
  • Weddings Are Stupid
    …Mr. and Mrs. Tropical Paradise spent $37,000 on their dream wedding. …, she quickly assured me that it was all worth it because she wanted to share the special day with all her friends and family…. …She’s a dance instructor, for God’s sake, A DANCE INSTRUCTOR. $37,000 could have been a pretty sweet down payment on home. Or, if she was really intent on spending all that money in one day, she could have invested in a nice mutual fund. But no. She had to throw it all away on a party…. …Four years later, when the bride and groom finally got divorced, they were still paying it off, too….
    Indeed a sound financial investment is much better than splurging way beyond your means on one day…
    …Do you really want to die without enough money to bury yourself?…
    *Nod..* Dying costs a lot too people… And speaking of costs and money… Remember inheritance is not always a net plus… it can be major debt. e.g. a large patch of land can have a huge unpaid environmental (cleaning) costs…
  • It Takes Two Parents To Raise a Successful, Functioning Child
    …She’s absolutely right, too. In this day and age, men have absolutely zero reproductive rights. If a woman wants a child, she’s going to have a child even if it means poking a hole in a condom. When it comes time to plan a family, a man is not allowed to say “enough is enough” or “we can’t afford it” or “I’m not sure I can be as good a Father if I spread myself too thin” lest he be labeled an insensitive clod….
    Some can be evil or “forget” taking/using contraceptives, I guess… But a guy to have zero rights and is just someone that pays for everything?
    …Women do that every single day when they demand allowance to plan the size of the family without any input whatsoever from their husbands. The double standard is sickening. If a man asks his wife to have more children because he always wanted a large family, he’s a sexist pig. If a woman does it, she’s simply exercising her biological rights. If a man asks his wife if they can limit the size of their family because he’s stressed out enough as it is he’s…a sexist pig. If a woman does it? Duh. She’s exercising her biological rights….
    Those damn sexist men~!
    …Aren’t men allowed to have biological rights of their own? What happened to the idea that it takes two people to say ‘yes’ to parenthood and only one person to say ‘no?’ Where is the man’s ‘Mercy!’ Card?…
    There are many interesting and good points further down the article. Hmmm, maybe men are easily whipped and or satisfied/blinded?
  • A Pedophile Lurking Behind Every Dark Corner
    …For me, I’ve learned that 3 years is length of time the average person can stand to spend time with me. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, but generally, my personal friendships tend to go boom somewhere around the 3 year mark….
    Maybe one have only encountered friends that are only destined for a part of your life or only walk a similar path for a while. Or some just change too much…
    …The Ex-friend in question is a single Mother. I met her before she had her child…back when she was still ambitious and well rounded. Unfortunately, after her progeny arrived, her personality slowly, but surely evaporated. Soon, her kid became her obsession and every single solitary thing she did was done for the good of her daughter…. …My friend was having a proverbial fit over that picture! Why, you ask? Because her daughter happened to be donning a bathing suit when it was taken. And, OH MY FUCKING GOD, what if a nefarious pedophile ends up seeing it? My friend has taken great pains to avoid taking a picture of her daughter in a bathing suit (EVER) in order to protect her from becoming masturbation material. As it turns out, all of her hard work was for naught. The parents of her daughter’s best bud ruined everything with an innocent click of their digital camera….
    Obsessions are scary. Maybe the mother drive is uhmm too over active… Personally I think she (writer) said (mehehe) the right thing… (go read the article till the end :p ) Hopefully the ex-friend will be more sane…
  • Just Say ‘NO’ to Bastard Children
    Parenthood > marriage *nod*
  • The New Definition of a Bastard Child
    Seemingly many people indeed don’t know the true responsibilities, obligations and etc…
  • Most Women are Nothing More Than Wasted Potential
    …One of the friends I told you about earlier actually does have children. She had them later in life, after she had accomplished much of what she set out to do. You should hear her kids talk about her when she’s not around. If someone asks them what Mom does for a living, they tick of her accomplishments on their little fingers, voices literally glowing with pride. Almost always, they end their speech with very determined promises that they are going to be just like her when they grow up.

    I remember being a small child and having people ask me what my Mother did. I would duck my head defensively because my Mother never did much of anything at all. She put on make-up and she dressed pretty, I guessed. But, other than that, she was hardly a conversational piece. I grew up wanting to be her exact opposite.
    *Beams about his mother, grand-mother, youngest aunt*

  • How Feminism Ruined My Sex Life
    Or maybe all them nice guys got a too freakish side and or too dominating/rape/violent fantasies. But a couple should be able to discuss, ask, share fantasies, more passion, interest and etc.
  • Why Don’t Men Have a Birth Control Pill?
    The judical system isn’t justice, just “technique” as my law teacher said. And lawyers need to be grey to be of help to those that deserve it or not… Mothers (often the tenacious ones, the law is about claiming, asking, holding on and keep at it for years…) will always get custody and more. That is how it is for now. Unless one can gather a lot of evidence…

6 Responses to “Ponderings and “Violent Acres””

  1. 1
    Humane Says:

    Written by an empty woman who fills her unfiltered articles with animosity and a childish temperament. Her key points are stereotypical and based off ‘the heat of the moment’. She gives no thought to what real love is like despite being married to a man that presumably is as much as an asshole as she is. And I say presumably because I can’t imagine a gentleman being married to such an impulsive cow.

    As most things, you can’t take what one says for face-value. You have to make your own judgments and reservations. My judgment of her is this: Her articles are brewed arrogantly and pompously and she justifies her opinions with common mistakes or lifestyles made by anyone. She’s lonely and she asserts her hatred of herself and the rest of society through biased and lambasted ‘key points’.

    As for the lonely and asserting hatred of self and the rest of society through small prattle about ‘how life is’, I think that pretty much describes the way you’re going, Commie.

  2. 2
    CommSie Says:

    Some articles may seem at face value that she is as what you say~ (Though I don’t get why you would attribute certain “points” to her) She does seem to have a pretty explosive and or malevolent character if you believe her articles. But most are just a brilliant fun read and some got quite sound advice. And also I selected these few articles and sneaked some general advice in the “commentries”~

    My opinions, “commentries” are based on what I’ve seen/experienced/observed/witnessed/”other synonyms…” myself close by and with quite some peeps. The tone of her articles are hilarious and gave a better smack-down of reality. Few points/conclusions of her “bazillion” articles may be dubious/doubted upon. But with most presented situations I agree upon, I don’t see any real plausible counters.

    Going? Ha. Already there. Society is grey. Only few things matters. Use or be used. Also timing is bad~ (When I’m in a certain mood, I reply in a certain way or share certain things on particular blogs)

    [Edit]
    Also a few of her articles are hilarious about how she provoked some peeps when grabbing the whole jar of candy that is/got a “Free” sign. And or trying to by a lot of certain drugs that can be made into something when purchased in large quantities. (Although one would almost wished for arrestment, but hey what can the police do, she didn’t make any meth yet, roight?)

  3. 3
    Humane Says:

    I think what really matters is that she believes the words that she types, regardless of what her audience thinks. An author’s bias can rub off on their audience. With her, she captivates them with her chronic pessimism with a spice of dark humor. But looking through everything said, her words mirror who she is and what she stands for. She’s obnoxious and offensive and has little comprehension of life other than the areas of black and white that she’s experienced. I know people out there that are seemingly how she describes them (i.e. trailer trash)but I also know there is more to a person and a society than she puts on.

    She, like you, only looks at the world from a far distance. Occasionally she will invite one or two things in then be rid of them once they piss her off with their normal human traits. She then scratches the thin surface of humans and lifestyles with a quick glance then pulverizes them with harsh words as if she were a know all philosopher. That’s not to say that there are genuinely evil or bad people with shallow, cold-hearted intentions because there are. I lived with several for most of my life. But there are also people out there that are warm, intellectual and loving. Just because the people you’ve known were ‘bad’, ‘shallow’, ‘manipulative’ and ‘condenscending’ doesn’t mean the entire human race is.

    Major highlighted key-points that would make me take her face off in a boxing ring: She thinks bastard children should be purged from this world, woman’s worth is only fulfilled if she is more than a house-wife, she thinks a father’s function (regardless of the title given)within the family is worth nothing, that marriage is a ‘load of bollocks’ and recommends anyone against it, she only understands issues that are skin deep (brought on by her mother no doubt)and she thinks all women need is a good fuck.

    As for you, you’re wallowing in self pity while poking fun at others lives and all the bad things that could happen. You’re unwilling to live your own life (i.e have fun, meet new people, look at life from a different view) because you lie to yourself saying all that matters is money. When you say that, we all know you’re full of crap but don’t say anything because you’re what we’d like to call our friend. However, if you’re hardening like you say and think you are, then take this for a dose: Live life rather than making up excuses why you can’t or shouldn’t.

  4. 4
    CommSie Says:

    She, like you, only looks at the world from a far distance. Occasionally she will invite one or two things in then be rid of them once they piss her off with their normal human traits.
    Yes, like I’ve only interacted with a few (handful) people outside my home city and hide behind the computer 24/7. Absolutely never been to a few places around the world and gotten close to or knowledgeable about extended family to acquaintences of acquaintences. ~sarc., sorry.

    She then scratches the thin surface of humans and lifestyles with a quick glance then pulverises (sp) them with harsh words as if she were a know all philosopher. That’s not to say that there are genuinely evil or bad people with shallow, cold-hearted intentions because there are. I lived with several for most of my life. But there are also people out there that are warm, intellectual and loving. Just because the people you’ve known were ‘bad’, ’shallow’, ‘manipulative’ and ‘condescending’ (sp) doesn’t mean the entire human race is.
    If I thought everyone was, I would assemble the means to take out as many as I possibly can. And a damn lot (even 1% of the world population is too big and it is bigger) deserve the harsh words. And giving some to charity at times and happiness in your little bubble is not good enough, imho. That’s just a “normal”, I guess.

    Major highlighted key-points that would make me take her face off in a boxing ring: She thinks bastard children should be purged from this world,
    I think what she meant is and especially after having some law classes… is that with a child one will always have a commitment to the biological parent(s). So if they (the biological parents) wishes to… they are part of your life (especially the child’s) for at least 18 years. If that is not a potential heavy burden and or high responsibility and obligation, I don’t know what is. And not talking about the financial ends that one can claim. (Law is about you need to claim/claw/cling on and don’t let too much time pass to get what one is “entitled” to)

    woman’s worth is only fulfilled if she is more than a house-wife,
    She’s mainly complaining about “trailer trash”, I guess. But I do agree a woman/housewife can be so much more. For example, you got some artistic skills, non? So far that I am aware of extra skills. One doesn’t necessarily need to achieve Guinness book of records stuff or financial achievements. Something a child can be proud of. Very hard working spirit is also a good example.

    she thinks a father’s function (regardless of the title given)within the family is worth nothing,
    She’s mainly complaining about (the so many cases and court cases in the US), where quite a lot of guys were tricked, hauled, mauled in into paying a lot of money to child support and blabla. Have read/seen/encountered quite a few, where one supposedly forgotten contraceptives or really have no say. Truly whippedness haha.

    that marriage is a ‘load of bollocks’ and recommends anyone against it,
    She was mainly complaining about those that think biological parents means nothing and one can be totally detached and be a single parent. There is in comparison, with parenthood and marriage, more responsibility, obligations and attachment unfortunately with parenthood (by the law and for most in reality, while they do not realize or consider it to be so). Also she was complaining how some were spending way beyond their budget for a wedding day. One should not overspend, e.g. 10.000 dollar wedding is also good, no? (>o_O)

    she only understands issues that are skin deep (brought on by her mother no doubt)and she thinks all women need is a good fuck.
    A good fuck can be good. Don’t know where exactly you have gotten this point/conclusion… So I can’t say/type anything else.

    As for you, you’re wallowing in self pity while poking fun at others lives and all the bad things that could happen.
    Poking fun (>O_o) So I laugh at all them bad peeps and schtuff (>o_O)?
    I give my view and some good precautionairy advice can be found within the layers of…

    You’re unwilling to live your own life (i.e have fun, meet new people, look at life from a different view) because you lie to yourself saying all that matters is money. When you say that, we all know you’re full of crap but don’t say anything because you’re what we’d like to call our friend. However, if you’re hardening like you say and think you are, then take this for a dose: Live life rather than making up excuses why you can’t or shouldn’t.
    Tell me if one does not worry about money as a “primary goal/objective”/”main concern”. How will one ever get ahead. And maybe consider this, a short time of enduring hardship and or hard work for a grand goal of “happiness”. Or else one will never get out of a certain lowly pit. And what do you think I think is fun? And if that is all to life (i.e have fun, meet new people, look at life from a different view), to hell with it. Debt and struggling to make ends meet is not a life. An own company at minimum and some financial securities/fall-backs, including for those you wishes happiness to, needs to be made imho.

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    Humane Says:

    Naturally, a main concern of people is debt and there are also those out there that only live for their money. Those are two extremes of money problems and there should be a ‘happy’ medium where debt or greed doesn’t control your life. I know debt isn’t fun but it’s none of your business why I know that. I’m have more common sense about money than you think so don’t delay me with silly questions on expensive weddings and debt.

    Aside that point, your sarcasm, word games and correcting spelling errors doesn’t hide the fact you contradict the person you want people to think you are. The frequency of your money lust is at an all time high or so you want others to believe. You say so often, “All that matters is money!” or ” In the end, we’re all alone and you only have yourself to depend on”. But I’m finding it interesting that even though you give off that mean, loner vibe you’re still fascinated with things called relationships, love and feelings.

    I can only be drawn to the conclusion that you want to be loved by your missing half. And that you want to be genuinely happy with things that are not made of materials. However you find it hard to achieve something as wonderful as that because of the environment you live in. And with your self esteem is shot to hell so you feel you can only observe. With all this observing, you recognize the pains and joys that something so wonderful has to offer. At first it made you hopeful but now it makes you bitter.

    You can’t obtain a relationship because you won’t let yourself and because you feel you can’t let yourself. You’re burying yourself more and more behind this money lust mask and if you don’t cut it out soon, your mask will become you.

  6. 6
    CommS007 Says:

    Debt and greed. So I am greedy? Wish I was as rich as Scrooge~ (Duck or whatever ~(o.o~) Yes, I might seem to be close or at the extreme end, but I’m not asking for multi-millions to bazillions. And also asking for self-achievement.) (^OO)> Debt is in the end one’s own decisions/faults/”sometimes (accepted and)inherited” and should be dealt with asap, cause if you end up to a point where the debt doesn’t diminish and where future costs of the current situations will expand…
    Tsk debt. About poverty I wonder how many people here truly have experienced homelessness, eating from garbage, being laughed at for only having broken rice or clothing that wasn’t worthy enough~ Yes, your debt and experiences is none of my business yes, but should I? Do I even need to inquire to have a general idea.
    Those questions aren’t silly and you misinterpreted them from her articles, that I have chosen to blog about. And of course you “centerize” or feel to spoken to yet again, about these kinds of topics.

    2 small corrections is not spellingnazi-ism o_o Nor a diversion tactic o_O.
    Without a little surplus to one’s minimum wage/income, how much fun can one have. Without a little bit more money, one is nothing, just another simple drone. And to achieve more, one does need to do it by themselves. Also most of the times those “dependency on oneself only” exclamations/rants were not about money.
    Fascinated or a scientific interest? ~(oo~) I want to understand what people are really thinking. What are they really trying to get, out of things. What is the drive, reason, benefits.

    What missing half.
    Without at least shelter, food, basic security and not so much worry, one cannot have true fun, happiness and etc. blabla.
    Yes, and what is wrong with my environment and how many times have I ranted and who only truly knows or needs to know my plights?
    My self esteem shot to hell? Or maybe I’ve become more narcissistic and find many to be too beneath me and or too ugly/unworthy.
    I’ve always had bitterness. I just show it more. I don’t need fake smilingnes, happiness nor need to share that. But humans will always interact with masks.
    I’ll get what I want, when I want, at my own pace and preparations.

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