Having fuckup friends sucks.

I think the best advice you can give your friend right now is to make the best choice in giving this child life and then putting her/him up for adoption. But first to go to a gynecologist to check the mandatory things. In the end, it’s what she wants to do and what you’ll say will have little matter over the end results. When her parents find out, they’re going to be the ones that have the very heavy influence over her. If she does choose abortion then maybe she’ll be able to deal with it, maybe not?

Unwanted pregnancies are sad things with never the right answers.

I had to face more the “We’re almost at uni and we’re still virgins” crowd, and when you try and say anything they call you patronising and a hypocrite, so you can’t ¬_¬

I hope it scares her into not doing it again. I’m usually sitting on the fence when it comes to pro life/choice but I’m inclined towards choice when no-one actually knows who the dad is.

I suppose the problem if she gets an STD is she’ll continue and hide it (if it’s not visual) or getting drunk with them so they won’t notice. They’ll probably feel like they can’t get a serious relationship with it or can’t be loved, and go in a downwards spiral - no-one can love them, but for that one night they feel wanted, and then they push that person away again (or looked for someone that doesn’t want long term in the first place) and find someone new. And then it just keeps going.

Wishing any kind of bad thing is bad. Although mankind does disappoint me. Why the need for some addictions and sexings about, I do not understand a lot of mentalities and conclusions…
But I can understand it’s very hard to grow out at times and for many they “mature” too “late”. As long as they do and see/understand their responsibilities at least around middle-aged-ness D= But many fail, too many fail unfortunately.

Hard situations, words can be wrongly interpreted by others due to their experiences, conclusions and etc. How annoying~

Yuh, helixy that is all you can do o__o

Personally I find feeling unwanted silly. But then again, what experiences did they only ever had or ever will have. (semi-rant)

It’s cold hearted for me to say this but anyone who sleeps around so much should, at best, get an STD. Because a) They’re more than likely home-wreckers and b) they’re irresponsible filth. I understand the ‘psychology’ so to speak of a promiscuous person (bipolar, daddy didn’t love me, etc) but at a certain point, get a grip of your own life you selfish cow. But ‘you’, it’s a generalization of promiscuous boys and girls. :P

I want to sympathize but I just can’t bring myself to like I usually can. I don’t think that’s so much because I was previously a christian but it’s more me thinking ‘PLEASE, grow the fook up or(if you can’t) get something that will scar you in a way to where it’s embarrassing for you to even have sex.’

I am 21 and I’ve had my fair share of relationships but with only 2 of them I slept with. (My ex and X) With the others, I could hardly bring myself to hold hands with them or kiss them. Maybe because that plays a part of my former Christianity but on the other hand it also had to do with ‘I don’t want to get pregnant so young’, ‘I want to go to college first’, ‘I don’t want to give myself to someone who won’t even love me’ and most importantly ‘I don’t feel compatible with them.. why the hell am I even with them?’ I even had the ‘daddy didn’t love me’ complex. *rolls eyes*

There are instances where teen pregnancy is understandable and I do sympathize. But that’s another long story.

I’m sorry if that came off as offensive but you and I are both honest and mature people so I feel confident in telling you my true feelings on this.