Woo! Feeling much better now. Feet are sore like. I can’t dance for beans =P
Some things just baffle me. Like people. I was gonna say ‘like guys’, but then I realise, ‘like girls too’.
See, it seems obvious to me that if a group of girls are closing the circle in your direction (eg blocking you off from joining the circle, usually because they’re taken, don’t want you, or you’re scaring them) it’s not an invitation to go stroking their arse (poor friend of mine. She should have whacked the bugger. She probably felt pity when she saw his face which had an expression of “oh… my god… I’ve… just touched a w….w-w-woman!” =P) And that if a woman says she’s gay, whether she is gay or just lying to get rid of you, you don’t have a chance either way. And if they’re moving away from you, as apposed to making an opening in the group, you’re being creepy =P
But then, my other mate, was hiding from someone she quite liked the look of because she was nervous - with quite similar techniques (refusing to look at him, turning the back/shoulder at him, etc. She didn’t tell him she was gay though =P) And women will dance with their back to a guy (that always just looked awkward though? O.o) There just isn’t any winning when things can be read either way.
Good grief, my sympathies for you guys =P I have no idea if it’s as bad the other way around - women usually drop hints so the guy will ask her, rather than her being upfront (there still seems to be this thing about outright girls being ‘loud’ or slappers O.o)
Oh, but looking up and down at someone’s body like “I’d like/I’ll have a bit of that” should warrant a slap, seriously. Several if you’re nodding and smirking at the same time. Seeing people look at my mates like that just annoys me. You can look at someone dancing without giving them that up-down look.
Poor Cheen, had guys crawling on her all night and she finds saying ‘no’ really awkward. No awkwardness for me thank you, the joys of keeping your back to the wall/counter thing most of the night =P
It was a good night though. Didn’t get nagged when I came back over “Zomg you spent money you didn’t need to!” (hence proving my last blog’s point. I thought “ZOMG your boyfriend is a MAN he’s going to DO awful things to you” for the first few months was bad, “ZOMG, he’s a MAN he’s going to TAKEALLYOURMONEY” is almost as bad. How can you be so sexist about men when you’re married? )
Which reminds me, saw I mate I hadn’t seen in ages - she’s one of those people that’s perfect academically, physically, and a lovely person all at the same time, so you just don’t have it in you to be jealous at her. She’s had a kid (good for her, it hasn’t ruined her apprenticeship (sp?) she’s going back to it soon.) and she’d make a really good mum, but had to have court/restraining orders on her bf. It’s really sad, she doesn’t deserve it at all. And now it’s going to make it difficult for her to find a bloke (I’m sure she could handle the kid on her own, but would help, y’know?) because a lot may well run as soon as they find she has a kid.
And guess what? She went to the pharmacy (the kid was an ‘accident’ but she’s thankful all the same, if it makes any sense? He’s not unwanted at all) and the woman there was so certain she wasn’t pregnant that she refused to give her the morning-after pill. 9 months later… yeah.
I mean good grief. It gets bashed into our heads “GET it if there’s the SLIGHTEST doubt in your mind” (you know, when you get sex ed several years after half the school’s had great experience in said matters, and half of those have been rumoured to have already had abortions) and then you get refused it when you ask for it. Bloody stupid.
Also, it’s really, really, really, really, really, REALLY painful. If anyone didn’t know already =P
My mate’s revealed that she’s a lesbian, my reaction was “good for her”, but everyone’s just so… wierded out about it. Or making digs. I mean, if she started taking the mick out of herself, and others followed, I’d understand, but they just wouldn’t let things drop. (she did have some witty comebacks though. Technically, she IS getting more girls than some of the lads =P)
There was a secret santa… and I didn’t get told! Joy!
Oh, and waiters really don’t like it when someone gets given a spank/whip thing (it’s like a whip with a leather hand on the end. Aaaaahahaha) and the lads start whacking each other with it.
It’s broken now. =P
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